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Today’s Prayer Focus

A Man Called Otto

also known as “Az ember, akit Ottónak hívnak,” “Ein Mann namens Otto,” “El peor vecino del mundo,” “Gyveno kartą Uvė,” “Hayata Röveşata Çeken Adam,” “Le Pire voisin au monde,” “Mężczyzna imieniem Otto,” See more »
MPA Rating: PG-13-Rating (MPA) for mature thematic material involving suicide attempts, and language.

Reviewed by: Alexander Malsan

Moral Rating: Offensive
Moviemaking Quality:
Primary Audience: • Adults • Young-Adults
Genre: Drama Comedy Adaptation
Length: 2 hr. 6 min.
Year of Release: 2022
USA Release: December 30, 2022 (limited)
January 13, 2023 (wide release)
DVD: March 14, 2023
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Relevant Issues
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Man forced to retire from his job of nearly 40 years

Difficulties of being a widower

An older man who has given up on life following the loss of his wife, become bitter, and wants to end it all

Bitterness, depressing negativity, loveless ways of thinking about the world

A short tempered grumpy old man

No longer seeing any purpose in one’s life following the loss of a spouse

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DEPRESSION—Are there biblical examples of depression and how to deal with it? Answer

What should a Christian do if overwhelmed with depression?

Challenging such a person to see life differently

SUICIDE—What does the Bible say? Answer

If a Christian commits suicide, will they go to Heaven? Answer

Issue of pain and suffering

Why does God allow innocent people to suffer?

What about the issue of suffering? Doesn’t this prove that there is no God and that we are on our own? Answer

Does God feel our pain?

ORIGIN OF BAD THINGS—Why are they in our world if a good God created us? Answer

Paradise or Pain? Why is the world the way it is?
Why is the world the way it is? If God is all-knowing, all-powerful, and loving, would He really create a world like this? (filled with oppression, suffering, death and cruelty) Answer

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For a follower of Christ, what is LOVE—a feeling, an emotion, or an action?

What is DEATH? and WHY does it exist? Answer in the Bible

What is ETERNAL LIFE? and what does the Bible say about it?


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Featuring Tom HanksOtto Anderson
Mariana Treviño (Mariana Trevino) … Marisol
Rachel KellerSonya
Manuel Garcia-RulfoTommy
Kailey HymanBarb
Cameron BrittonJimmy
Mack BaydaMalcolm, a neighborhood transgender teen
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Director Marc Forster
Producer 2DUX²
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Otto does not like people… period. He goes to extremes just to avoid having to interact with them, and what little interaction he does have with those he comes in contact with he calls, “idiots.” Despite Otto’s short temperament and lack of social grace, the neighbors tend to look the other way and still interact with Otto (Tom Hanks) from time to time, even calling on him for help on occasion.

Take for example, Otto’s new neighbors, Marisol (Mariana Treviño), Tommy (Manuel Garcia-Rulfo) and their two daughters, Luna and Abbie. They have just moved across the street and like good neighbors, they walk over and introduce themselves to Otto. Otto says his quick hello and shuts the door. Marisol, in her mind, knows there’s more to Otto than meets the eye and is determined to make him feel cared for.

Over time, Marisol and Tommy ask Otto for assistance on a variety of things: from house maintenance, driving lessons, to even babysitting. While Otto wants to, at first, say no to this family, he just can’t seem to, and he finds himself warming up to them… just a little.

The world is full of many wonders, and Otto just happens to be one of them.

I have had SO many conversations with myself about how I was going to try and piece together my thoughts and compose my review for “A Man Called Otto.” This is, in part, due to the heavy themes that the piece sometimes delves into (which I will address in a minute) as well as Tom Hanks’ ability to play a role that, truthfully, is very out-of-character for him.

First, “A Man…” presents several instances of a character (I won’t say who) who attempts, and almost successfully, commits suicide. These moments on screen are so intense that I gasped in shock at what I witnessed (or almost witnessed). The issue itself, suicide and the value of life, is handled with respect though. It’s never laughed off (like in one of the “Halloween” films) or proclaiming that suicide is an answer.

Q & A

SUICIDE—What does the Bible say? Answer

In fact, what I can appreciate is the value of life is key to “A Man Called Otto.” “A Man…” speaks to the very messages of, “Life is ALWAYS worth living,” to “carry each other in times of struggle,” and that “everyone, everywhere matters. Even the grump next door.” These messages, some subtle, some not, make their way throughout the film, with many thematic moments bringing tears to my eyes at certain points.

Regarding the performances itself, I was skeptical walking into the theater looking at Tom Hanks in the role of Otto. I have not seen the original Swedish version of “A Man …”, so I cannot compare the versions. Having said that, like the characters on screens themselves, it took some time before I warmed up to the idea of Hanks playing Otto (in fact I kept thinking, “Wouldn’t someone like J.K. Simmons have been a better choice?”). But then as Hanks made his transition throughout the film, revealing subtle nuances in his performance, I realized what a good choice Hanks was and why Hanks wanted this role. Additionally, Mariana Treviño was hilarious and at times powerful as Marisol.

Cinematically, the film is above average in its other aspects of quality. The pacing was slow in the second act (I think I checked my watch twice), and moderately slow in the final act as well but not to the point where I was wishing for the end. There are some moments where the film stops, particularly during Otto’s flashbacks, where the audience is allowed to really grasp the pain Otto has endured, both physical and emotional, for most of his life, and I appreciate how the director went about it.

One thing I will STRONGLY object to is that is transgender messaging that made its way into the film (e.g. There is a transgender character that Otto takes in for the night because he was kicked out of the house by his dad for being transgender) and this transgender character plays a prominent role later on in the film as well. Why does transgender have to be a part of this film at all? Why does Hollywood have to proselytize its dangerous messaging ad nauseum? I don’t go to movies to be preached at (unless it’s a Christian or faith-based film). I go to escape.

Content of Concern

*Warning: Some graphic descriptions regarding suicide are listed below. Reader discretion is advised**

VIOLENCE: As I said, a character attempts to commit suicide in a variety of ways such as hanging themselves (this is where he comes the closest to succeeding), trying to suffocate in a closed running car, shooting themself with a shotgun, and jumping in front a train. A different character falls on some train tracks, and he is saved by the character who was planning to stand on the tracks and get hit by a train (he still tries to get hit, but doesn’t succeed). He talks once about having a “car running him over.” Someone mentions you don’t “want me to cut my hand and have it bleed on your floor.” While Otto is teaching Marisol how to drive, while stopped, a man honks his horn and yells, and Otto gets out and holds the guy up against his car threatening him. Another character threatens someone. We witness a bus rollover with a couple characters hurt in the process (we later learn a character who was pregnant lost a child due to the crash). A character dies. A woman throws rocks at a stray cat.

VULGARITY: “F*cker” (1), “Sh*t” (6 —including “I'm gonna kill that piece of sh*t”), SOB (2), B*stard(s) (4), “Pr*cks” (1), “Groin” (1), “P*ssing” (1), “Brown guys” (UPS trucks), “Cr*p” (5), “S*cks” (1), “Knotheads(?)” (1), “Idiots” (used a lot), “You little bugger

Slang definition: Bugger


PROFANITY: “My G*d” (5), “G*d-d*mn” (2), “Jeez” (1). God’s name is used in vain 11 other times. “H*ll” (7), “D*mn” (2).

Slang definition: Jeez


SEXUAL CONTENT: A man wearing tight, revealing pants stretches, causing Otto to ask the man’s girlfriend if she can tell him to “stop stretching his groin in public.” A young Otto and Sonya kiss a couple times. Marisol and Tommy kiss, too. A husband and wife lay in bed, covered, and that’s it.

WOKEISM: As I said, a transgender character plays a prominent role in the last portion of the film and there’s some LGBTQIA+ messaging in the film (talks about how he got kicked out due to being transgender, likes sports now, etc.).

ALCOHOL: Someone brings alcohol to an event but no one drinks it.

OTHER: There is some dog urine on the sidewalk. We see a cat frozen in the snow (he is found and taken care of and recovers).


“A Man Called Otto” has two primary messages. The first is to “love our neighbors” (even if we don’t like them). Not only is loving your neighbor one of the Ten Commandments, but Jesus himself touched upon it in his messages…

“But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. —Luke 6:27-28 ESV

“This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.” —John 15:12 ESV

Q & A

For a follower of Christ, what is LOVE—a feeling, an emotion, or an action?

The second message of the film speaks about living one’s life, to live with purpose and to never take your life for granted. This is an Earthly message. The more Godly message is to live with purpose for God. Our life is not ours alone. It belongs to our Creator. Regenerate Christians were bought with a heavy price and so we must honor that sacrifice by living for Him, bearing good fruit in Jesus’ name.

“Before I formed you [Jeremiah] in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations. —Jeremiah 1:5 NASB

“Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward.” —Psalm 127:3 ESV

“For “‘In him we live and move and have our being’; as even some of your own poets have said, “‘For we are indeed his offspring.’” —Acts 17:28 ESV

Final Thoughts

“A Man Called Otto” made me ponder some of my choices as a Christian. Who have I ignored? Who have I forgotten? Where do I lack compassion? These important messages certainly made their way across and could be nice jumping points for great discussions… but only for mature audiences. Several scenes involving suicide, profanity and vulgarity and a LGBTQIA+ message thrown in do not make this a family, or necessarily, Christian-friendly film for all audiences. Strong viewer discretion is advised.

  • Violence: Heavy
  • Profane language: Moderately Heavy
  • Wokeism: Moderately Heavy
  • Vulgar/Crude language: Moderate
  • Sex: Moderate
  • Drugs/Alcohol: Minor
  • Nudity: Minor —cleavage
  • Occult: None

See list of Relevant Issues—questions-and-answers.

Viewer CommentsSend your comments
Positive—I went to see this movie not knowing anything about it other than it was a story concerning a grumpy old man. Well, I was very surprised at the subject matter concerning his attempts at ending his life.

Although it was a bit of a shock, I must say that it opened my eyes to the concerns that older people face—loneliness, despair, physical and emotional pain, loss and feelings of rejection. While it may not be something everyone should see it definitely gives you a reason to be more understanding of what your neighbor may be experiencing.

The acting was top notch and there wasn't a dry eye in the theater. Yes, there was language but no nudity or sexual content of any kind.

As a Christian it also made me realize how much more compassionate I need to be when confronted with someone who seems to be angry or generally grumpy.

I recommend this film only to those who may have an elderly loved one in their midst who may need some extra attentive care and understanding.
My Ratings: Moral rating: Average / Moviemaking quality: 4½
Reba, age 66 (USA)
Neutral—I found it to be a thought-provoking exploration of life, death, illness, and the impact of pain on individuals. The film emphasized the importance of serving and helping others to find meaning in life, as well as the need to preserve personal relationships despite differences on trivial matters. While I enjoyed the overall narrative, I was personally uncomfortable with the inclusion of transgender ideology, feeling it was not necessary to include. What made it worse was the comment made by Otto about the father of the transgender character after being told why she was kicked out of the house. Additionally, though the suicide scenes did not disturb me, I recognize they may be distressing for more sensitive viewers. Overall, the movie provides a powerful reflection on life’s complexities, but certain elements might not resonate with everyone.
My Ratings: Moral rating: Average / Moviemaking quality: 4
Andrew, age 42 (South Africa)
Negative—While it was described in the media as heartwarming and a comedy, it is hard to understand the rating oh PG-13. The four attempts at suicide left nothing to the imagination. For vulnerable people this could put ideas into their minds. I would not recommend it for any young people. In the end there was a message that life is worth living, but I don’t think it overcomes the descriptions of suicide.
My Ratings: Moral rating: Offensive / Moviemaking quality: 3
Stella, age 78 (Australia)

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Secular Movie Critics
…The mere SUGGESTION that the Hanks character TRIES to kill himself multiple times is the MacGuffin; it’s the distraction that tries to make the film deeper and more moving than it is. Otto will never succeed in his mission because that would crush the message of this highly manipulative exercise. …Sorely missing from “Otto” is the element of surprise. …There are far worse ways to spend two-plus hours of your life.
Michael Clark, The Epoch Times
…offers the kind of crowd-pleasing arc that runs counter to the prevalent mood of worldwide cynicism. …
James Berardinelli, ReelViews
…There’s laying it on thick, there’s laying it on with a trowel, and there’s laying it on like “A Man Called Otto.” …
Kyle Smith, The Wall Street Journal
… The cliched plot about a reformed grumpy old man is so obvious you can see it from outer space. …
Peter Travers,·ABC News
…A cranky Hanks heads a blah humbug of a movie… Forster’s haphazard direction is so checked-out it’s painful – he shows no interest in giving anyone a scene that isn’t wholly about snapping something into place, and his comedy mise-en-scène and timing in even the simplest moments of humor is flat. …
Robert Abele, The Wrap
…The movie is trying so hard to be a crowd-pleaser, in its reach-for-the-synthetic, sitcom-meets-Hallmark heart, that it will likely end up pleasing very few. It’s the definition of a movie that Tom Hanks deserved better than. …
Owen Gleiberman, Variety
…Hanks carries the film with his personality and his easy address to the camera, but this oddity of a film never quite comes to life. …the movie follows the form of the original pretty faithfully, although the gay teenage boy that Ove helps in the first film is now trans. …[2/5]
Peter Bradshaw, The Guardian (UK)
…It doesn’t quite successfully balance its warring tones, but a winningly grumpy performance from Tom Hanks — and a winningly sunny one from Mariana Treviño — ensures for a very watchable take on the ‘giving life another shot’ subgenre. …[3/5]
John Nugent, Empire [UK]
…No thank you… If you’ve seen Eastwood’s “Gran Torino” or Nicolas Cage in “The Weather Man,” you’ll know the sort of cranky redemption arc we’re eventually in for here, but this is the flat-packed, self-assembly-kit version – more likely to exacerbate a mild depression than warm the cockles. …[2/5]
Tim Robey, The Telegraph [UK]
…The result is a film to which you ultimately find yourself succumbing even though you never stop being aware that your heartstrings are being shamelessly pulled.…
Frank Scheck, The Hollywood Reporter