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The Good Lie

MPA Rating: PG-13-Rating (MPA) for thematic elements, some violence, brief strong language and drug use.

Reviewed by: Samuel Chetty

Moviemaking Quality:

Primary Audience:
Adults Teens
1 hr. 50 min.
Year of Release:
USA Release:
October 3, 2014 (wide—450+ theaters)
DVD: December 23, 2014
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Relevant Issues
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adjusting to a completely different lifestyle

clash of cultures

orphans in the Bible

plight of Sudanese refugees / the Lost Boys orphaned by the brutal civil war in Sudan that began in 1983


helping people in need / humanitarian service

America’s long humanitarian history—long led and supported by followers of Christ

POVERTY—What does the Bible say about the poor? Answer

poor in the Bible


Why does God allow innocent people to suffer? Answer

What about the issue of suffering? Doesn’t this prove that there is no God and that we are on our own? Answer

Does God feel our pain? Answer

ORIGIN OF BAD—How did bad things come about? Answer

Did God make the world the way it is now? What kind of world would you create? Answer

dealing with feelings of guilt

Featuring Reese WitherspoonCarrie
Arnold Oceng … Mamere
Ger Duany … Jeremiah
Emmanuel Jal … Paul
Corey Stoll … Jack
Kuoth Wiel … Abital
Femi Oguns … Theo
Sarah Baker … Pamela
Lindsey Garrett … Jenny
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Director Philippe Falardeau
Producer Alcon Entertainment
Black Label Media
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Distributor Warner Bros. Pictures

Review updated 10.4.2014.

“The Good Lie” opens during a war in Sudan in the late 1980s. Several Sudanese children become orphans after their parents are killed by a militia shooting in their village. To try to get away from the violence, the children embark on a dangerous journey by foot to Kenya. They deeply bond with each other during that ordeal and regard each other as brothers and sisters for the rest of the story. Thirteen years later, four of the children (now in their late teenage or young adult years) who survived to that point and could remain together are granted permission to move to the United States.

When Mamere (Arnold Oceng), Jeremia (Ger Duany), Paul (Emmanuel Jal), and Abital (Kuoth Wiel) arrive in the U.S., the males are directed to Kansas City to live at a place set up for them by Pamela (Sarah Baker), who works for a Christian mission organization. The girl, Abital, has to go to Boston, because girls are required to live with a family, and a family for her could not be found in Kansas City. Another woman, Carrie Davis (Reese Witherspoon), is assigned to help the young men in Kansas City find a job. Though they are appreciative of their life in the U.S., they face difficulty meeting U.S. employee expectations and dealing with separation from Abital, who they consider their sister.

The movie’s character designs are strong. The Sudanese friends have contrasting attitudes about life in the United States which evolve as the story progresses. Carrie’s personality is pretty good for comic relief, with her awkwardness when trying to talk to the boys and blunt, matter-of-fact attitude when talking to prospective employers for them. As the movie moves along, she transitions from an attitude of helping the young men as an assigned task to acting out of personal concern.

As for conveying a message, the movie’s title obviously raises the question of whether lying is ever justified. The movie does have a lie at the end that is not condemned by the plot or characters. ***SPOILER*** Mamere learns that a brother who he thought was killed long ago is actually alive. Mamere returns to Africa to confirm that his brother is alive and hopes to bring him to the U.S., but Mamere’s request is denied by the U.S. Embassy. Mamere gives his brother his passport and tells him to go to the U.S. under the identity of Mamere. Mamere himself stays in Africa. From a storytelling standpoint, this represents a major sacrifice on the part of Mamere, because of the three Sudanese men who had lived in the U.S., he had the greatest ambitions for his new life there. ***END SPOILER***

We do not know what happens to the characters after that, so I don’t think the movie is trying to claim that lying is either the right or wrong thing to do in the long run. Instead, I think the idea conveyed is only that people with compassionate intentions can feel compelled to lie under certain situations. There are many examples of positive moral values in the movie, as the children show deep commitment to each other throughout, and helping them out in America brings joy to Carrie’s personal life which had seemed a bit chaotic in the beginning. Although “The Good Lie” is not advertised as a Christian movie, there are many Biblical references. The Sudanese children read the Bible and pray together, and they consistently attribute improvements in their lives to the work of God.

I consider this movie to be decisively better than average from a moviemaking perspective and would recommend seeing it if you are comfortable with movies that have the content described below.

Violence: In the beginning of the movie, there are several intense gunfire scenes with shots fired at both adults and children. Blood and gore are mild-to-moderate.

Language: GD (1), “My G*d” (2), “holy cr*p” (1), “hell,” various mild vulgarities (6). A Christian character says “thank Jesus” before drinking tequila and getting drunk.

Sexual Content: Early in the movie, Carrie appears to live with her boyfriend, and there’s one scene in which they sit on the bed together and kiss. Carrie is fully clothed, but the boyfriend doesn’t have a shirt on, and there is a bra lying on the bed. Later on, we see one of the Sudanese guys in a bathtub with only his arms and head visible.

Drug Use: One of the Sudanese men is influenced by his American co-workers to start smoking marijuana to relieve stress. Later in the movie, it is shown that this practice has negative impacts on his personality.

Other: There is one scene of a person vomiting.

Violence: Moderate to heavy / Profanity: Moderate / Sex/Nudity: Moderate

See list of Relevant Issues—questions-and-answers.

Viewer CommentsSend your comments
Positive—Enjoyed this movie very much. It is heartfelt and uplifting, the kind of a movie we need for getting us through the stresses and challenges of this life.
My Ratings: Moral rating: Good / Moviemaking quality: 3
J.B., age 74 (USA)
Positive—This was an emotional movie to watch. As Americans, we are insulated from many examples of true suffering, and the movie did a good job of showing just what these kids had to deal with trying to survive.
My Ratings: Moral rating: Good / Moviemaking quality: 4½
Wesley, age 51 (USA)
Positive—The message of the movie is a powerful illustration about the Gospel and what Jesus did in trading placing with us. He gave His life for my life. He sacrificed His life so I could live free. I would highly recommend this movie.
My Ratings: Moral rating: Good / Moviemaking quality: 4½
Dave B, age 57 (Canada)
Positive—I cried throughout the movie. Made me want to go over and adopt all of them. The family were all so nice, such awesome people. They cared about everyone they met, and the people like Carrie and her boss, as well as the women who found them the home—were so clueless. It was disturbing, but emotionally gratifying, when they all came around to really care about this group of people who had become a family.

While I was annoyed with the implication of a sexual encounter of “Carrie”. It acknowledged the typical world as it is today, but was brief and not revisited. As a Christian, I would not let this deter you from this really awesome message.
My Ratings: Moral rating: Excellent! / Moviemaking quality: 5
Pat, age 55 (USA)

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